Thank you for the response to my request.
My situation may be a bit complicated in that I personally have three children below the age of 12, all of whom are not a problem to "yet".
I and my wife are father and mother adviser for the Dangamvura Church of Christ Youths here in Zimbabwe. I am also a member of a committee responsible for designing lessons for the congregation. Parents, in my youth advisory role, expect me to tackle the issue of discipline amongst the youth, quite a number of whom are a real problem, hence my request for your assistance.
Your assistance would be very invaluable.