I have a 10 yr old male with ADHD and a 12-year-old female with ADHD and ODD. Both are step children and their biological father is gone a lot as a truck driver. I have parented a successful 25 yr old who is married now. Their father has ADHD too. He doesn't take medicine. The 2 children do. I have been step mom for 4 years. Ever since the 3rd grade their problems have become worse. They have just about everything described. I need help in getting them to control anger and fighting constantly with each other. I also need help with the lying, stealing, disrespect. I have started reading your book.