My 11 1/2 year old son seems like a 14 year old - he's huge 5'9", size 12 men's shoe and a mustache already. He's a sweet, wonderful boy, but we can't get things done - get dressed, wash hair, pack lunch, do homework. Everything is an enormous struggle. It's gotten to the point where I am yelling or forcing everything we do - I'm a single mom, and business owner - so this constant struggle at home with my beloved son is going over the top for both of us. I can see the look of the downtrodden in his eyes - it's scaring me.