I just told my daughter that "when someone talks to me in that tone, I feel hurt and I want to stop you from being so disrespectful." Then she says " I hate you, I'm not going to listen. " And then I don't know how to manage consequences that make sense, and will help rather than fuel the fires. She says "I'm not rude, I'm telling you that you are acting like a bitch." She is 14 years old in November.
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