Re: My 7 year old daughter. She has not been diagnosed for ODD but she has been diagnosed with speech language impairment, ADHD and sensory integration disorder. She is struggling in her academics and she does exhibit some behaviors that mirror ODD. I have tried many different strategies with her. She has been saying curse words for the past 3 years. When she becomes frustrated, she will say many obscenities and call me stupid. She hits her sister and she will hit at me. I really want to help my daughter and my family.