I have an 11 year old daughter who consistenly tries to get out of school, always complaining of some illness or other.
I have spoken to the school and the school councellor and they have both told me that once she is at school all is well.
She is not being bullied in fact I think sometimes she is the bully.
At home whenever she is asked to do something the answer is always "later, when I'm ready," or "leave me alone". When I demand that she does something, she starts yelling and calling me names, telling me that she hates me and the like. I for the most part try to ignore this as numerous books and online sites have told me to do.
Sometimes I do retaliate, by either yelling back or some punishment or other.
I have considered sending her to boarding school, which is way out of my price range unfortunatly, and also if I did that I would be passing on my problems to someone else and I feel that it is my responsibility to raise my own child... our 16 year old son and our daughter. We live on a 5 acre property with two horses, two cats and a dog, she has all the creature comforts, tv, computer, huge room.
My husband works away and is only home for one week out of four, he has been working away for years.
I don't know what to do or who to contact.
My Out-of-Control Child